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About tranquilamama

Juggling parenthood, housework and working outside the home in the corporate world with my wonderful husband. Mom to 2 beautiful girls. PPD and PPA survivor. The title of my blog is after a phrase that was repeated to me in Spain during my semester abroad in college. It roughly translates to relax and calm down. Trying to tame my inner perfectionist and just be a good enough mom.

Ten Years

Ten years ago today, I married my best friend.  I did not think that it would be possible to love him more than I did on our wedding day, but I do.  He has been my rock and my touchstone.  … Continue reading

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Rising from the Ashes

Today is a momentous day for me. It marks the two year anniversary of my journey towards recovery. It was Mother’s Day, 2011. My daughters were then 7 months old and three and a half years old. I was at … Continue reading

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Tapping the Mic: Is This Thing On?

Is this thing on?  Taps the mic a few times.  Oh no, I have just gotten the evil eye from my technical director.  Tapping the mic is a no-no.  In all seriousness, I have the utmost respect for the technical … Continue reading

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Why Girls, Why?

So there’s a funny meme going around the Internet now that was started by Kristin.  When you’re commanded by the Empress in a tweet no less, you cannot refuse.  She’s like the Godmother of the Internet except she is just as sweet … Continue reading

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My Survivor Story at Home Life Simplified

Today I am guest posting on Debra Dane’s blog, Home Life Simplified.  I met Debra through our mutual friend, Ivy Shih Leung.  Debra does a monthly feature on her blog talking about postpartum mood disorders or PND (postnatal depression) as it … Continue reading

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Sleeping beauty

I read this post by Deborah of Truthful Mommy, and it really struck a chord with me. I was watching my sweet Munch sleep the other night. She looked at the same time like the baby I nursed to sleep … Continue reading

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Eleven Things

The sweet Kristin of Little Mama Jama tagged me in her post. Here are the rules: Someone chooses you. You tell 11 things about yourself. You answer 11 questions. How fun! So, here goes: 11 Things About Me 1. I … Continue reading

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Connection and recognition

We crave connection.  As I listened to the LTYM auditions these past two weekends, I noticed the hunger for connection in my community. I felt inspired and honored to be able to give the gift of just listening to someone’s … Continue reading

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How (Not) To Celebrate A 21st Birthday

I had just returned from a semester abroad in Spain. I was finally getting acclimated again to college life in the States. I threw myself back into campus life and became involved in several extracurricular activities. As my mom will … Continue reading

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All You Need Is Love

A’Driane, I am so delighted for you and Bert as you embark on the amazing journey of marriage.  On your wedding day, my husband and I will celebrate 9 years and 10 months.  I wish for you a solid foundation of … Continue reading

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